There are times and circumstances when silence works against you. It can kill your heart and soul.
This particular silence can destroy your identity, your spirit. That is, when silence is used as a means of avoiding something, you know must deal with. When you use silence to hide the truth, to avoid the facts, or color the obvious, it will destroy your sense of worth.
It demonstrates your belief that people who tell the truth don’t matter, but they do. Not speaking up for yourself gets you into major problems. It really pains a lot.
You come to learn the worst possible aspects: Speaking only half truth, delaying to ask for help, even not speaking up at all. Being overly concerned, with what others will think about me.
Pain, pain and pain! Ignoring the pain and being afraid to say no, for the fear of losing dear ones, staying in painful situations long enough, being afraid to make a mistake, by not trusting yourself and believing that a mistake if made, cannot be rectified.
Silence is a very good teacher. It teaches you many things. It teaches you how to listen and how to hear. It teaches you how to feel and how to translate into words, what you are feeling. It allows you to go deeper inside, to find the peace that surpasses understanding. Peace that allows you to move forward. Most of the time silence is a good thing.
It makes possible, to remember your pain, without experiencing it again. You can feel bad and recover without it being hard on you. You have to heal hundreds of wounds, but one at a time.
Cosmic energy is mute and it does not give advice or tries to fix things for you. It just listens and lets you work out for yourself. Basically it is a self help tutor. Just remember that you are needed by everyone and everyone is in need of you.
Hence you are a very important person. Like people first, ask questions later. You are not the light or the source of light, nor the source of truth. Light will shine in many dark areas of your life, only if you reflect it. You are merely a mirror. Know that the light you shine on others is always reflected back on to you a hundred fold.